Big Girls With Options

My experience of being in a romantic relationship is that it has it's pros and cons. I feel that when you're relaxed and comfortable with who you're with makes a great difference. When you can consider that, verses being angry, untrusting and not having positive energy flowing is a toxic relationship. My experience in a romantic relationship is loving, having patience and be kind to one another as well as respect for each other's feelings. I love hard and I remain loyal always as well as share my feelings if something bothers me.That gives time to communicate and fix what's wrong. What type of experiences could you add to being romantically involved with someone? What makes your relationship work? How do you handle when something is bothering one of you?